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Balanced parenting style and its impact on the development of child personality

Balanced parenting style and its impact on the development of child personality

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Recieved: 12/22/2015

Accepted: 09/07/2015

Published: 12/31/2015

p.: 119-129

DOI: 10.11621/npj.2015.0412

Keywords: normal personality; abnormal personality; existential dichotomy; parenting styles; parent-child problems

Available online: 31.12.2015

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Kapustin, Sergey A.. Balanced parenting style and its impact on the development of child personality. // National Psychological Journal 2015. 4. p.119-129. doi: 10.11621/npj.2015.0412

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Kapustin, Sergey A. Lomonosov Moscow State University

Abstract

The paper includes research results of families, who have never applied to psychological counselling. To assess the normality and abnormality of parent and child personality existential criterion was used. In these families a so-called balanced style of parenting was revealed. This style indicates the compromising parental position in the education of their children concerning the existential dichotomies help and autonomy, nature and culture, self-actualization and conditional values, determinism and self-determination. The study results suggest that this position is developed by parents independently and on a rational basis. In accordance with the existential criterion mentioned above, characteristics of the educational position of parents indicate normality of their personality. It is shown that a balanced style of parenting contributes to developing child personality type with a dual, contradictory orientation for both children and their parents when solving life problems. Children with this type of personality, as well as their parents, manifest inherent willingness to compromise position towards the same existential dichotomies help and autonomy, nature and culture, self-actualization and conditional values, determinism and self-determination. Thanks to a balanced style of parenting favourable personal prerequisites for the development of normal personality are shown. As balanced style of parenting contributes to the normal development of child personality, these children have lack personal prerequisites for emerging difficulties in social adaptation, and therefore in families with such style of solving parent-child problems, due to these difficulties are completely absent.

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<b>Fig. 1. </b>The relative performance of DHS test for children to assess the characteristics of their relationships with their parents, who according to the interviews revealed: overprotection (N = 27); over demandingness (N = 22); balanced parenting style (N = 21)
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<b>Fig. 2. </b>The values of the integral factors of V - dominance and G - test of DMO goodwill for children to evaluate the characteristics of their relationships with their parents who according to the interviews revealed: overprotection (N = 27); over demandingness (N = 22); balanced parenting style
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<b>Fig. 3. </b>Results of M. Luscher test for parents who according to the interviews revealed: a) overprotection (N = 56), b) over demandingness (N = 48), c) a balanced parenting style (N = 22)
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<b>Fig. 4. </b>Profiles of R. Cattell test results for the parents who according to the interviews revealed: overprotection or over demandingness (N = 123); balanced parenting style (N = 25)
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<b>Fig. 5. </b>Profiles of R. Cattell test results for children whose parents according to the interviews revealed: overprotectiveness, over demandingness, or a combination of over demandingness and overprotectiveness, (N = 75); balanced parenting style (N = 20)
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Kapustin, Sergey A.. Balanced parenting style and its impact on the development of child personality. // National Psychological Journal 2015. 4. p.119-129. doi: 10.11621/npj.2015.0412

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